OCD

Or whatever you call it. You ever had that thing where you are doing one thing, and you think of another thing. The other thing doesn't have to be done then. Or soon. But now you've had the thought. And you HAVE to do it.

Like crossing a road. I have to cross the road at some point I know. But I could walk a ways before it's necessary. But once I've had the thought, I have to wait and cross, even if there's traffic. I could just walk straight till the crossing is mandatory. But that feels like I was forced into it :). So I cross when I think about crossing.

See. OCD. Or whatever.

I had an epiphany

I'm having a lot of them lately. I like epiphanies. But I think this one will get me into trouble :).

But my epiphany. When women come to men with a problem, men try to solve it. This pisses women off. This is not part of my epiphany.

When men come to women, women do the SAME THING. Men just don't get pissed off because that's how they would have handled it!

That is my epiphany. I can hear my husband go - so I can do what you do and you can't be mad at me right? Crap.